'I ordered first': Guy buys the last cake in the bakery for his pregnant wife; gets accosted by a mother behind him in line for 'stealing the last cake' from her child

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    Font - ole. Posted by u/Unhappy-Tutor-4131 4 hours ago r/AmIthe. AITA for buying a cake a child behind me wanted? Throwaway account! My pregnant wife (our first!) messaged me at the end of my work shift that she had sudden cravings for cake, and I was more than happy to
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    Organism - get her one. Unfortunately as this was close to 6pm, the bakery only had a Swiss roll left in terms of cake. As I was selecting a few other breads, a mother and her daughter came in, and the girl noticed the Swiss roll in
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    Font - the display cabinet and shouted that she wanted it. However, I had already ordered it, and when the worker took it out for me, the girl started screaming and crying. The mother did initially ask if I could leave the roll for
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    Font - her, but I said that I ordered first. She then began getting extremely demanding, saying that I didn't need to eat it, can't you feel for a kid, how selfish, etc. It only stopped with the worker said that I had came first and ordered it before the mother and daughter had even walked in.
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    Font - I got home and told my wife the incident. She said that I was a bit of an a hole for not giving up the cake for the kid, and that she would have understood if the store had no more since I did buy other sweet breads, or I could have gone to the supermarket
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    Font - instead. She also asked why I didn't tell the mother that I was buying it for a pregnant wife with cravings. I didn't see the need to share private info, but wife said that maybe the mother would have understood, and that I appeared to be insensitive by sticking to "ordering first" as my argument.
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    Font - We did end up enjoying the Swiss roll and she told me not to worry and just be more mindful next time, but I can't help but feel a bit guilty. Was I the a hole for denying a kid a cake she wanted?
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    Font - 1u53r3dd1t 3 hr. ago NTA you were getting your Pregnant Wife something for a craving. I can tell you that I did a ton of driving and impromptu runs during both pregnancies when my wife had cravings. I did it because I wanted to and knew it would make her happy.
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    Font - Unhappy-Tutor-4131 OP 3 hr. ago My wife explained it as a scenario for when we have our child and something similar happens and how sad we and our child would be. But I don't think I would let my child throw the same tantrum, nor be as rude as the mother was to me.
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    Rectangle - unownpisstaker. 3 hr. ago She didn't have to face the tantrum. The second that started I'd be nope! No way reward that stuff and I'd tell the brat that too.
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    Font - momo474747 2 hr. ago This. When I see adults who are complete selfish a holes I wonder how they got this way. They were raised by people like that mom who was behind OP. Life's rough and we don't always get what we want. Suck it up.
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    Font - 8inchSalvattore 18 min. ago ole Enthusiast [7] Suck it up is right. Giving into the kid's tantrums teaches him he can whine and pout to get his way. But no one's going to put up with that when he's older. Better the kid learns now than later. Besides, first come, first serve. OP got there first. ΝΤΑ.
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    Font - HappyGothKitty. 2 hr. ago Let's also not forget the child's mother is teaching her child to throw a tantrum every time she doesn't get whatever she wants. Like no! That behavior should not be encouraged, at all.
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    Human body - DadToOne 2 hr. ago Throwing a tantrum to get something guarantees my son will not get it.
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    Font - salajaneidentiteet. 2 hr. ago Kids should be taught that they can't always get what they want, for different reasons, not that when they throw a tantrum, other people will give into their demands. Being sad because somebody else got the cake is part of life. Now I want cake, tho. I am preagnant.
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    Font - Vandreeson 2 hr. ago NTA. First come first served. It doesn't matter why you ordered it, you were there first. We can't always get what we want. If the roles were reversed, would you be pitching a fit because the people that got there before you ordered the last item, and you wanted it?
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    Font - Spare-Article-396 - 2 hr. ago Professor Emeritass [79] It's best to let your kids handle disappointment early in life so they don't grow to be absolute bratty AHs. My kid knew early on that no is no. But a tantrum? No becomes absolutely not and probably also no for next time because of this behavior
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    Font - Ok-Wrangler-8175. 2 hr. ago You get what you get and you don't get upset. If it happened to my kid I'd say "Oh well - next time" and we'd think of something else. Being rude to the person who bought it first and assuming that the kid should get it first because they are a kid is how to raise a monster. Do not feel bad. NTA
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    Rectangle - Indefinite Louse 2 hr. ago Yeah no. I'll let my kid be disappointed, sure, but throwing a tantrum over not getting a piece of cake. Nope. We're leaving with nothing kiddo.
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    Smile - Katana_x 2 hr. ago Honestly, with my kid I'd use it as a teachable moment: "We don't always get what we want. The world doesn't revolve around you."

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